Sunday, January 30, 2011

bidding farewell to Hotel Charlotte

As a Charlotte Native, one must certainly note the closing of one of our oldest restaurants. Just days after celebrating its 31st anniversary, Hotel Charlotte Restaurant has closed its doors. Now, rumor is that it will probably be re-opened as early as next week under new ownership, but one must take a moment to pause and reflect on this closing of another chapter in its life.

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I had always known it was a choir tradition to go across the street after rehearsal for dinner and drinks. My father had gone weekly before I was born and while I was a young child. My boss went, everyone went, and come to think of it, it was at Hotel Charlotte that I have made the connections leading to my three most recent jobs.

I re-joined my choir family 5 years ago. It's hard to imagine it's been that long, but there have been semesters taken off for school here and there. I'm no longer the youngest choir member either. The summer after I started attending rehearsals, Gratia invited me to join them at Hotel Charlotte for drinks. Well, I was 20 years old, and although I probably could have had a drink, I was ordering Sweet Tea. The waiter told me "Honey, you're at the wrong table. You need to sit outside with the Presbyterians."

You see, our group was known for its drinks. Nancy has Jameson on the rocks, Gratia has Gin and Tonic (with water and a straw so she could dilute it a little), Pam has the Martini, David has the Warsteiner or some other beer, John, Ardis, Debbie and Agnes are the wine connoisseurs (for the record, David and Pam are as well), Larry was working on getting his own glass (which is the reward for drinking all 99 or so different beers that they have). My boss and quite a few others had achieved theirs years ago. I know there are others to be mentioned, but these constitute the present core-group. Where was I to fit in? Well, I became known for the frilly pink raspberry Hotel Charlotte Martini. Then, after that got old, the red wines (Blue Franc, and Shooting Star Zin, to be exact), then margaritas, then the economy hit... I, like everyone else, was cutting back. Water for me, please. Water and half-size salads or just a sandwich. The first few (and worst) weeks of this, others were picking up my tab on occasion. $7-9 was not much to them, and they knew I was only making $30-$100 a week. I fought back though, and the last two weeks I have been able to have a glass of wine with that half-salad or sandwich.

I said before that my most-recent three jobs have come from relationships fostered at Hotel Charlotte. These people knew me from when I was very young - my whole life, even. I probably could have gotten them just being in the choir, but I like to think it was at Hotel where these acquaintanceships became far more familial in nature. Debbie approached me in the fall of 2006 with an offer to come work at the jewelry store for Christmas. When it came time to get an architectural internship, everyone told me I should talk to Paul. I knew I could ask, but I didn't want to design jails. At least not at the time. So I ended up designing water and wastewater treatment plants. After hearing of my upcoming lay-off of from Hazen and Sawyer, it was at Hotel Charlotte one Thursday evening that I casually asked Paul if he would possibly be hiring any interns soon. It was such an exasperated and sarcastic question that I was surprised when he replied "Actually, Glenn and I were talking about that the other day. Why don't you come in and bring your portfolio by the office one day?" That was perhaps the easiest job-acquisition ever. I worked for them for a year and a half. The economy hit their firm a couple of months before graduation. After several months of unemployment and building my babysitting clientele, Pam and David took the get-nicole-a-job baton, recommending me to their daughter as a potential nanny for their grandson, Devin. That's where I'm working now. It's not ideal, and everyone knows I would rather be working in a firm, but it's where I am, and there certainly are worse ways to make money than spending one's time playing with an 8 month old baby all day.

So last night, I drag Ross over to Hotel Charlotte for its final night. As we are walking in, I notice Paul's vehicle in the parking lot. The place is packed - it's standing room only at the bar. Paul quickly finds us, and I introduce him to Ross, my friend who is about to graduate, inevitably joining the world of the unemployed architectural grads. We order our last round of drinks, which Paul picks up the tab on, chat for a while, and bid the Steve and Sam (the owner and bartender, respectively) farewell, and head on to The Comet and Sir Edmond Halleys, two other fine Charlotte establishments, that only the locals really know about, and can find, for that matter ;)

Monday, January 17, 2011

mumford and sons and marketing ploys

Okay, so I've been hearing about Mumford and Sons for over 6 months now (which yes, I know means I'm out of the loop). They've come up on a couple of my Pandora stations and friends have posted their music on Facebook. I've listened to some of their songs and immediately loved them but today I'm finally making the commitment - looking up lyrics, buying the album, committing the songs to memory, etc.

Immediately the marketing ploys take over... iTunes' genius feature suggests that I may like Vampire Weekend's new album, Contra. So I listen - of course I would, iTunes has me all figured out... Pandora is sneaky like this too... I have found so many artists that I never would have heard of before simply from chasing threads through the Music Genome Project. I would have to say still, the best find ever was David Falcone, a fantastic fingerstyle acoustic guitarist from Philadelphia who is a psychology professor at Lasalle University. His song, Lullaby for Lauren came up on my Jeff Buckley Pandora station, which was created after seeing his cover of Hallelujah posted on a friend's facebook wall.

And it will continue... Earlier this month I swiped a near-stranger's entire playlist from playlist.com - there were lots of people I had never heard of before and am falling in love with. Also, I've just made the Mumford and Sons Pandora station, so you know there will be more there as well.

My love for music used to be a very expensive venture, after years of swiping I made a moral decision to come by my music honsetly, and iTunes loved me, but now thanks to playlist.com, Pandora, YouTube, etc. I am able to enjoy finding the music I love without blowing the bank :)

Thursday, January 13, 2011

historic preservation

found this neat photo-blog on dornob.com - find the article here.

The author writes: Changing Change: Only time will tell, but I would like to think that at some point in the future someone will add another layer to this process by literally overlapping yet a third photograph onto each scene, taking a fresh snapshot that further tells the passing of time.

Saturday, January 8, 2011

a little marcus aurelius for the evening

6:11 When force of circumstance upsets your equanimity, lose no time in recovering your self-control, and do not remain out of tune longer that you can help. Habitual recurrence to the harmony will increase your mastery of it.

6:31 Come back now to your sober senses; recall your true self; awake from slumber, and recognize that they were only dreams that troubled you; and as you looked on them, so look now on what meets your waking eyes.

7:56 Take it that you have died today, and your life's story is ended; and henceforward regard what further time may be given you and as uncovenanted surplus, and live it out in harmony with nature.

back to blogging

A new friend has intrigued me to get back to blogging - to use my blog as a repository for inspirations and curiosities - to share ideas and passions. With the new playlist feature and Pandora sidebar I can also share a little more about my recent musical discoveries. Loving this!